There are various forms of communication that you
can maximize to enhance your relationship. Sadly, a lot of couples are only
familiar with verbal forms of communication. As good as that form of
communication can be, it is still limited. There are a lot of things you might
not be able to tell or express to your spouse by just “talking.”
Thus, in this short piece, I will be sharing with
you various ways you can relate and speak your heart to your spouse. This
principle is not only applicable in the context of marriage. It is applicable
in every form of relationship.
9 FORMS OF COMMUNICATION
1. VERBAL COMMUNICATION
Verbal communication is communication with words
and includes pitch and tone of voice, the word you say, and the dialect you
choose to speak. In the context of marriage, it could be:
- Direct conversations: talking openly about feelings, needs, and desires.
- Discussions:
problem-solving, decision-making, or planning as a couple.
2. NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION
Nonverbal communication is both intentional and
unintentional communication through body language.
- Body language: gestures, facial expressions, posture, personal space, and eye
contact can convey feelings like affection, frustration, or empathy.
- Touch: hugs,
holding hands, kissing, romance or other forms of physical expression of
love and comfort without words.
3. WRITTEN COMMUNICATION
Written communication involves writing in any
format.
- Letters or notes: handwritten or digital messages of encouragement, apology, or
affection.
- Texts and emails: quick ways to stay connected during the day.
- Social media:
chatting with your spouse.
4. EMOTIONAL AND AFFECTIONATE COMMUNICATION
Emotional and affectionate communication is a
deeper form of communication that could be verbal or nonverbal. It is aimed at
touching the emotions of your spouse. It involves:
- Sharing feelings: Expressing joy, sadness, anger, or excitement, fostering
emotional intimacy.
- Empathy: Actively
listening and responding to the emotional state of your spouse.
- Compliments and encouragement: Speaking positive words that uplift and affirm your partner.
- Acts of service: Small gestures like doing chores, preparing meals, or running
errands that communicate love and care.
5. HUMOUR AND PLAYFULNESS
Humour and Playfulness is a form of communicating
your nature and friendliness to your spouse. It has a way of bringing joy and
changing the atmosphere of your home. It involves:
- Jokes and light-hearted conversations: Adding humour to communication can relieve tension and foster
closeness.
- Playful teasing: Affectionate teasing strengthens intimacy and alters the
atmosphere of your home.
- Playing games together: it could be manual or digital games.
6. CONFLICT COMMUNICATION
Conflict Communication is a form of communication
that is aimed at resolving conflict, bringing clarity and understanding between
couples. It could involve:
- Constructive confrontation: Addressing issues calmly and respectfully in order to resolve
disagreements.
- Apologies and forgiveness: verbal and non-verbal ways of seeking forgiveness or granting
forgiveness.
To achieve your goal with this form of
communication, you must consider “the right timing;” void of distraction and
interruption. The mood of your spouse must be considered, before
initiating this form of conversation.
7. TIME-BASED COMMUNICATION
There is a time for everything. Even when it comes
to discussing some important matters in marriage, you must consider the right
timing. This is where time-based communication comes in. It involves:
- Quality time:
spending intentional time together, talking or engaging in activities that
build connection.
- Scheduling discussions: Scheduling an appropriate time and place to discuss important
matters.
8. SILENCE AS COMMUNICATION
Silence is another form of effective communication
that is used for different purposes. It could be to a:
- Comfortable silence: Being together without speaking but still feeling connected.
- Reflective silence: Pausing to reflect on the matter on ground.
- Displeasure silence: As a way of displaying your displeasure.
9. SPIRITUAL COMMUNICATION
Spiritual communication is one of the deepest forms
of communication that leads to godly soul-tie between couples. This form of
communication causes the two individuals to be bond together in their souls and
spirit. This form of communication is achieved through
- Praying together: Praying to God together about anything.
- Having spiritual conversations: discussing your faith through intense Bible study in the form of family
devotion.
- Praying for your spouse: Either for God’s help or for God to help you convince your spouse
about a matter. Proverbs 21:1
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