PERSONALISED PAULINE PRAYERS

Compiled by Pst. Gavin E. Aleogho

 

1. Ephesians 1:17–19 – Prayer for Spiritual Wisdom and Revelation

 

Scripture:

"That the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give to you the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of Him..."

 

Personalised Prayer:

Heavenly Father, I ask You, the God of my Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, to give me the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of You. Enlighten the eyes of my understanding, that I may know what is the hope of Your calling, what are the riches of the glory of Your inheritance in the saints, and what is the exceeding greatness of Your power toward me who believes, according to the working of Your mighty power.  Amen.

 

2. Ephesians 3:16–19 – Prayer for Inner Strength and Love

 

Scripture:

"...that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man..."

 

Personalised Prayer:

Father, grant me, according to the riches of Your glory, to be strengthened with might through Your Spirit in my inner man. Let Christ dwell in my heart through faith, and may I, being rooted and grounded in love, be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height—to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge, that I may be filled with all the fullness of God. Amen.

 

3. Philippians 1:9–11 – Prayer for Abounding Love and Discernment

 

Scripture:

"And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in knowledge and all discernment..."

 

Personalised Prayer:

Lord, let my love abound more and more in knowledge and all discernment. Help me to approve the things that are excellent, that I may be sincere and without offense till the day of Christ, being filled with the fruits of righteousness which are by Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God. Amen.

 

4. Colossians 1:9–12 – Prayer for Knowledge, Strength, and Endurance

 

Scripture:

"...that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding..."

 

Personalised Prayer:

Father, I pray to be filled with the knowledge of Your will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding, that I may walk worthy of You, fully pleasing You, being fruitful in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God. Strengthen me with all might, according to Your glorious power, for all patience and longsuffering with joy. I give thanks to You who has qualified me to be a partaker of the inheritance of the saints in the light. Amen.

 

5. 1 Thessalonians 3:12–13 – Prayer for Love and Holiness

 

Scripture:

"And may the Lord make you increase and abound in love to one another and to all..."

 

Personalised Prayer:

Lord, cause me to increase and abound in love to others and to all people, just as You desire. Establish my heart blameless in holiness before You, my God and Father, at the coming of my Lord Jesus Christ with all His saints. Amen.

 

6. 2 Thessalonians 1:11–12 – Prayer for Worthiness and Fruitfulness

 

Scripture:

"Therefore we also pray always for you that our God would count you worthy of this calling..."

 

Personalised Prayer:

My God, count me worthy of Your calling, and fulfil all the good pleasure of Your goodness and the work of faith with power. Let the name of my Lord Jesus Christ be glorified in me, and I in Him, according to the grace of You, my God, and the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.

 

7. Romans 15:13 – Prayer for Joy, Peace, and Hope

 

Scripture:

"Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing..."

 

Personalised Prayer:

God of hope, fill me with all joy and peace in believing, that I may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

 

8. 2 Thessalonians 3:5 – Prayer for Divine Direction

 

Scripture:

"Now may the Lord direct your hearts into the love of God and into the patience of Christ."

 

Personalised Prayer:

Lord, direct my heart into the love of God and into the patience and perseverance of Christ. Let my heart beat in rhythm with Yours. Amen.

 

9. Philemon 1:6 – Prayer for Effective Faith

 

Scripture:

"...that the sharing of your faith may become effective by the acknowledgment of every good thing which is in you in Christ Jesus."

 

Personalised Prayer:

Father, let the sharing of my faith become effective as I acknowledge every good thing that is in me in Christ Jesus. Amen.

 

©Gavin E. Aleogho 2025

 

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THE SPIRITUAL DYNAMICS THAT AFFECT DECISION-MAKING

 

Written by Gavin Aleogho
 
When Rehoboam, son of Solomon, ascended the throne at forty-one, one would expect a reign that is marked by wisdom, restraint, and spiritual authority. Since he was no novice to royalty—raised amidst splendour, schooled in diplomacy, and groomed under the shadow of Israel’s wisest king. Yet, what unfolded in 1 Kings 12 reveals a painful truth: age, exposure, and pedigree do not automatically translate to wise decision-making.
 
His very first major decision as king led to the division of Israel—a once united kingdom shattered by poor judgment. This outcome calls for a critical look at the spiritual dynamics influencing decision-making.
 
Inherited Curses and Their Influence
 
Solomon’s latter years were stained by idolatry. The Scripture records, “his wives turned his heart after other gods; and his heart was not loyal to the LORD his God” (1 Kings 11:4). This spiritual compromise invoked divine judgement: “I will surely tear the kingdom away from you” (1 Kings 11:11). Although God spared Solomon in his lifetime, He appointed that the judgement would come during his son’s reign.
 
Thus, Rehoboam inherited more than a throne—he inherited the spiritual consequences of his father’s rebellion. When the people pleaded for lighter governance, Rehoboam responded harshly. The Scripture clarifies, “the turn of events was from the LORD, that He might fulfil His word” (1 Kings 12:15).
 
This scenario clearly reveals that not all decisions are what they appear to be on the surface. While some choices may seem political, strategic, or rational, they are often influenced by unseen spiritual forces. Behind what looks like common sense or sound judgment could be divine prompting—or subtle manipulation from the enemy. Human reasoning alone cannot always detect the spiritual dynamics at play. That is why Scripture urges us to walk by the Spirit and test every spirit (1 John 4:1), so our decisions align with God's will, not hidden spiritual deception.
 
The Clouding Effect of Sin
 
Habitual and unconfessed sins often blur discernment and weakens spiritual sensitivity. Raised in a palace where idol worship had become normalised, Rehoboam likely inherited not just his father’s authority but also his moral compromises. Like Solomon, he married many women and possibly indulged in similar sexual sins.
 
Sexual immorality carries spiritual consequences; it actually darkens counsel and numbs spiritual perception. Hence, Proverbs 6:32 says, “Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding.” No wonder, in today’s world, a grown man may abandon his devoted wife and starving children, lavishing money on a strange woman, enslaved by lust and blind to the ruin he’s bringing upon his family.
 
The Danger of Rejecting Godly Counsel
 
When faced with a leadership challenge, Rehoboam consulted the elders who had served his father. They urged him to serve the people and lighten their burdens. But his peers—young men with no spiritual track record—advised severity and authoritarianism. He rejected wise counsel and embraced prideful strategy.
 
His infamous words still echo today: “My little finger shall be thicker than my father’s waist” (1 Kings 12:10). Rehoboam mistook aggression for strength, pride for authority. He forsook the wisdom of the Spirit for the strategies of the flesh, and the people rebelled.
 
Key Lessons from Rehoboam’s Downfall
 
1. Wisdom Is Not Inherited—It Must Be Pursued
 
Solomon’s wisdom was legendary, but his son never sought the same grace. Being raised in a spiritual environment does not guarantee divine wisdom. Many second-generation Christians assume maturity simply because they grew up in church. But wisdom must be pursued, not presumed, if you must make wise decision in life.
 
“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God” (James 1:5).
 
2. Sin Pollutes Counsel and Clouds Judgment
 
Rehoboam’s atmosphere was already polluted by years of idolatry and indulgence. Pride, lust, and idolatry are not neutral forces—they are spiritual contaminants. The spirit of lust doesn’t just damage the body; it corrupts decisions. It hinders one from making sensible decision.
 
When sin becomes the norm, people choose pleasure over purpose, ambition over obedience, pride over humility and human strategy over the leading of the Spirit.
 
3. Maturity Without Discernment Is Dangerous
 
Rehoboam was forty-one—he was a matured adult. Yet, he lacked sound judgment. No wonder Job said, “Great men are not always wise, nor do the aged always understand justice” (Job 32:9).
 
Age and experience without divine wisdom and spiritual discernment can still produce foolish decisions. Sadly, today, I have seen mature men and women—who ought to be filled with wisdom—become the very ones influencing others to make wrong decisions because they themselves are spiritually lukewarm.
 
4. Spiritual Atmosphere Affects Decisions
 
Ephesians 2:2 speaks of “the prince of the power of the air, the spirit who now works in the sons of disobedience.” Rehoboam’s spiritual environment was compromised, and this influenced his decisions.
 
In many lives today, decisions are no longer birthed in prayer but shaped by logic, haste, and human strategy. When the altar of communion is forsaken, noise replaces the still small voice of the Holy Spirit. You can’t afford to fall for this trap.
 
5. Carnal Strategy Replaces Spirit-Led Direction
 
Rehoboam thought that being harsh and authoritarian would secure loyalty, but spiritual leadership requires sensitivity to God’s voice, not human force. Many individuals today fall into the same trap—making decisions based on pride, pressure, human strength or fear of losing relevance. Instead of seeking divine direction through prayer and the Word, they rely on manipulation, control, or worldly wisdom. Such choices may offer temporary benefits, but they hold no lasting or eternal value.
 
Contemporary Reflections for Believers
 
The lessons from Rehoboam's story are strikingly relevant in the lives of many Christians. Many individuals may find their decision-making impaired by unaddressed sins, generational curses, demons, the influence of ungodly counsel, satanic covenants in families or impending judgements.
 
Breaking the Cycle
 
To overcome these destructive dynamics, there is need to
 
1. Repent from Hidden Sins
 
Unconfessed sins—like lust, pride, bitterness, and greed—distort a person’s judgment and weaken spiritual sensitivity, ultimately leading to poor and destructive decision-making.
 
2. Acknowledge and Renounce Generational Curses
 
Recognize the patterns of sin inherited from previous generations and actively seek deliverance through prayer and adherence to God's word. Such curses should be broken through prayer, fasting coupled with God’s word.
 
3. Pursue Personal Holiness:
 
Commit to a lifestyle that rejects sin and embraces righteousness. Know that sin and other vices can significantly impair spiritual discernment. Let righteousness be your compass.
 
4. Seek and Heed Godly Counsel:
 
Value the wisdom of spiritually mature individuals and be willing to accept guidance that aligns with biblical principles. Age and experience do not exempt you from accountability neither does it hinder you from seeking counsel. Don’t walk alone. Surround yourself with wise, Spirit-filled mentors who are rooted in Scripture.
 
5. Prioritize Divine Guidance
 
Prioritise divine guidance above personal ambition. Let the Holy Spirit, not pressure or emotion, lead your steps. Wait patiently in prayer and discernment—never rush into major decisions without a clear, Spirit-confirmed direction from God. Obedience always precedes lasting success.
 
6. Discern the Spiritual Atmosphere:
 
Be spiritually alert to demonic influences that often disguise themselves as logic, ambition, or opportunity. As Scripture admonishes, “Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God” (1 John 4:1). Always pause and ask: Is this pressure from God or from selfish ambition? Am I being led by the Holy Spirit or driven by my own desires? Spiritual sensitivity is key to discerning God’s will in a world full of persuasive, yet deceptive, voices.
 
7. Cry Out for Mercy
 
When judgment looms because of past sins, appeal to the mercy of God. David prayed, “According to Your mercy remember me” (Psalm 25:7). Mercy breaks destructive cycles. Where judgment once clouded discernment, God’s mercy restores clarity, positioning you to walk in divine favour.
 
Conclusion
 
The reign of Rehoboam serves as a sobering warning to every believer and leader, illustrating how the spiritual realm can profoundly influence decision-making. Beloved, as you walk with Jesus in these challenging times, remember that worldly wisdom is insufficient. Your decisions must reflect the counsel of heaven. Therefore, allow the Holy Spirit to guide every decision you make so that you can stand firm and walk in divine wisdom for such a time as this.
 
“Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.”
Proverbs 3:5–6.
 
©Gavin Aleogho 2025
 

BIBLICAL VIEW ON THE ISSUE OF ORAL SEX

  

Written by Gavin Aleogho
 
Biblically and biologically, sexual intercourse was originally designed by God to take place between a man and a woman using their sexual organs (penis and vagina). Its divine purposes include procreation, unity, bonding, and pleasure. This is the core expression of sexual intimacy as ordained by God, and it is to be experienced solely within the covenant of marriage.
 
“Marriage is honourable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.”
Hebrews 13:4
 
Just as the mouth and tongue are not sexual organs, so also the hands, eyes, neck, and legs are not sexual organs. Yet, we cannot deny that these parts of the body often play a supportive role in foreplay and affectionate expressions between married couples.
 
When it comes to the matter of oral sex, Scripture does not mention it explicitly. However, we are not without divine guidance. Believers are called to honour God in their bodies and not imitate the ways of the world, even in the marriage bed. We must avoid the error of doing anything that dishonour God or dishonour our bodies.
 
“Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves… For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature.”
Romans 1:24, 26
 
Questions To Ponder Upon
 
Thus, whether oral sex is appropriate comes down to these key questions:
 
1.     Is it within the covenant of marriage?
2.     Is it consensual—mutually agreed upon, not coerced or manipulated?
3.     Does it honour the dignity of your spouse’s body, or degrade it?
4.     Does it serve love and connection, or awaken lust, perversion, or addiction?
5.     Does it align with holiness, purity, and mutual respect?
 
“Love… does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil.”
1 Corinthians 13:5
 
When It Becomes Harmful
 
Sexual pleasure within marriage is a gift from God, but it must never be detached from His principles of holiness and love (1 Thessalonians 4:3–5). When acts such as oral sex become rooted in lust, mimicry of pornography, or selfish gratification, they defile what God intended to be sacred. You must understand that freedom in Christ is never a license to do any how or live anyhow.
 
“All things are lawful for me, but not all things are helpful. All things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any.”
1 Corinthians 6:12
 
When Oral Sex Becomes An Issue
 
Oral sex may become spiritually or emotionally damaging when:
 

• It is rooted in pornographic influence or ungodly curiosity.

• It imitates the perversions of a fallen culture.

• It becomes addictive, shifting focus from intimacy to mere physical thrill.

• It triggers guilt or inner conflict in one or both spouses.

• It becomes a tool for control, coercion, or manipulation.

• It interferes with emotional bonding or spiritual unity.

• It makes one partner feel violated, dirty, or grieved in conscience.

• It opens the door to lust, comparison, or the worldly mindset.

 
The Dangers Of Oral Sex
 
1.     Engaging in acts rooted in lust or ungodly influence can grieve the Holy Spirit and open the door to spiritual impurity and defilement.
2.     If one spouse feels uncomfortable or used, it may create distance and cause emotional disconnection rather than deepen intimacy.
3.     The act can become addictive, shifting focus from loving connection to physical gratification.
4.     Violating one’s conscience or God's inner witness can lead to emotional regret and spiritual unrest…causing guilt and shame.
5.     Oral sex can lead to the transmission of STIs and STDs like herpes, gonorrhoea, HPV, and syphilis, even in marriage.
6.     Bacteria and viruses passed through oral sex can lead to infections in the throat or tonsils.
7.     Certain strains of HPV contracted through oral sex can increase the risk of cancers in the mouth or throat.
8.     Open wounds or poor dental hygiene can increase the chance of infection transmission.
 
In Conclusion
 
If the marriage bed would remain undefiled (Hebrews 13:4), then it must be governed by mutual love, respect, and a reverence for God’s design. Oral sex is not inherently sinful in every marital context, but it must never replace God's primary design for intercourse nor become an obsession that blinds spiritual sensitivity.
 
“Let all that you do be done with love.”
1 Corinthians 16:14
 
“Pursue peace with all people, and holiness, without which no one will see the Lord.”
Hebrews 12:14
 
©Gavin Aleogho 2025